I've definitely thought about leaving the husband at home to take a trip on my own, but haven't taken the plunge yet. My dream is some woodland refuge with access to a river or lake for swimming, and enough books to fill practically every hour of the day. (How I'll actually manage to pack all of them is another matter altogether.)
That's exactly how I spent my solo getaway - just added in some hiking and biking! Finished 2 books in the 4 days I was away. Bliss! (I love paper books but Kindle has been a traveler's dream!)
I think I need to be more open-minded when it comes to Kindle... anytime I've used one before I've never felt like I've really read the book. But I know how silly that sounds. And it sure would make travel easier!
I was really resistant in the beginning but at that time I was a full-time traveler and the moment I realized how much weight and space in my bag could be saved by the 3-5 books I always carted around, I never looked back!
Thank you for the refreshing reminder that solo travel and solo experiences can co-exist alongside a healthy relationship. I often worry that I'll have to sacrifice one for the other, but reading this has reminded me that I really don't.
It's interesting that people in Lake Garda were shocked you'd travel without your husband. It's maybe not yet the "norm" but I think a lot of people would be happier in their relationships if they carved out a slice of time for themselves every now and then. I think your 90/10 split is a really healthy way to look at it.
I think it's about finding the balance that's right for you and your partner. But so long as you're with someone willing and ready for those conversations, whatever the split looks like in the end, I bet it'll be good for you guys.
I’ve been thinking about an early retirement, but my wife wants to keep working. I love that you have both found the balance that lets you pursue your own interests.
I've definitely thought about leaving the husband at home to take a trip on my own, but haven't taken the plunge yet. My dream is some woodland refuge with access to a river or lake for swimming, and enough books to fill practically every hour of the day. (How I'll actually manage to pack all of them is another matter altogether.)
That's exactly how I spent my solo getaway - just added in some hiking and biking! Finished 2 books in the 4 days I was away. Bliss! (I love paper books but Kindle has been a traveler's dream!)
That sounds amazing.
I think I need to be more open-minded when it comes to Kindle... anytime I've used one before I've never felt like I've really read the book. But I know how silly that sounds. And it sure would make travel easier!
I was really resistant in the beginning but at that time I was a full-time traveler and the moment I realized how much weight and space in my bag could be saved by the 3-5 books I always carted around, I never looked back!
Thank you for the refreshing reminder that solo travel and solo experiences can co-exist alongside a healthy relationship. I often worry that I'll have to sacrifice one for the other, but reading this has reminded me that I really don't.
It's interesting that people in Lake Garda were shocked you'd travel without your husband. It's maybe not yet the "norm" but I think a lot of people would be happier in their relationships if they carved out a slice of time for themselves every now and then. I think your 90/10 split is a really healthy way to look at it.
I think it's about finding the balance that's right for you and your partner. But so long as you're with someone willing and ready for those conversations, whatever the split looks like in the end, I bet it'll be good for you guys.
I've also shared some tips I've gathered on solo travel if anyone is interested in having a read.
https://open.substack.com/pub/millennialmetamorph/p/the-joys-and-challenges-of-travelling?r=5l1c0t&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web
I’ve been thinking about an early retirement, but my wife wants to keep working. I love that you have both found the balance that lets you pursue your own interests.
Super important to keep some independence IMO. Hope you guys will be able to find a solution that works for you both!
I’ve travelled solo 90% of my life and the only people who ask where my husband is are men. The women just smile.
I haven't found that to be in the case for me - I get curiosity from both sides
I think it’s apparent I’m not married.
😂