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Marci Cornett's avatar

Great list! I've found the older I get the more homesick I feel, so planning a "see you later" has become essential for my own emotional well-being too.

A Way Abroad's avatar

It really makes such a big difference mentally!

Carole at Coconut Lands's avatar

All very true. One I'd add - especially if you move somewhere that's about as far away as you can get from your family, as I did - don't expect them to come and visit you. None of my family has visited me in New Zealand - they're simply not travellers. I have to go to them. Quite a few friends have been, though!

A Way Abroad's avatar

so true! I'm lucky my family enjoys travel but still, the 4 years we lived in Asia only 1 friend made it over to visit.

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Oct 11, 2025
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A Way Abroad's avatar

It's crazy the difference that small amount of effort means! You're lucky to have someone like that in your corner!